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Best man Speech Opening Lines
Having a killer opening line well rehearsed will give you a massive confidence boost at the start of your best man speech. This can be especially useful if you are nervous about talking in front of an audience.
Even of you plan to read your script out it is a good idea to commit the first few lines to memory. This is the time in your best man speech when your nerves will be most heightened so knowing the first few lines as well as you know your own name will set you in good stead for the rest of your speech.
We have put together a list of sample best man speech opening lines. Some of them you will have to adapt to ‘your’ wedding. You may have heard similar lines in other best man speeches, these are based on classic best man speech opening lines. Adapting classic lines is a good way to put your mark on them and keep your best man speech sounding original.
The Opening Lines...
- “Good evening Ladies and Gentlemen - Before I start I’d just like to tell you all, as some of you might not know me, that the groom and I grew up together, spent our formative years together so to speak. This means that he had as much of a part in developing my sense of humour as I have his. So, although I have written this speech to be as humorous as possible, please blame (groom’s name) if it's not.”
- “Ladies and Gentlemen - Let me first say that the bridesmaids look stunning today, and only outshone by our bride, (bride’s name). Gentlemen, I'm sure you'll agree that today sees a terrible loss for single men, as another beauty leaves the available list. And ladies, I'm sure you'll agree that today is passing by without so much as a ripple.”
- “Good evening, Ladies and Gentlemen- I am the best man, so in time-honoured tradition I will now do my best to give (groom’s name) the most uncomfortable five minutes of his life. For the record, the most uncomfortable five minutes of (bride’s name) life will be later on this evening, courtesy of (groom’s name).”
- “Ladies and Gentlemen- Before I speak I must let you all know that I had a heavy night last night and I’m still feeling quite fragile. So, although it will be difficult, please try not to laugh or clap too loudly during my speech, I really have a pounding headache. I should have known not to go out drinking the night before such a big day, but (groom’s name) is a mate and he needed a shoulder to cry on.”
- “Good evening, Ladies and Gentlemen- I’d like to thank you all for coming today and helping to make (groom’s name) and (bride’s name)’s wedding such a special and memorable occasion. Although, to be honest, I wish you'd all stayed at home and made my job a lot easier. But thanks for coming.”
- “Ladies and Gentlemen- For what feels like the fifth time today I rise from a warm seat with a piece of paper in my hand!”