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Father of the Bride Speech Opening Lines
Having a great opener that you have rehearsed several times will give you a huge confidence boost at the start of your father of the bride speech. This can be especially useful if you are nervous about talking in front of an audience.
Even of you plan to read your script out it is a good idea to commit the first few lines to memory. This is the time in your father of the bride speech when your nerves will be most heightened so knowing the first few lines as well as you know your own name will set you in good stead for the rest of your speech.
We have put together a list of sample father of the bride speech openers. These openers can be used as they are or adapted to your wedding party. Adapting classic lines is a good way to put your mark on them and keep your father of the bride speech sounding fresh and original.
- “Ladies and Gentlemen, before I start speaking, I must apologise. I read a book about father of the bride speeches when I was writing this. It said that the father of the bride speech should ideally be around ten minutes long. Well, I rewrote it and rewrote it and the shortest I could manage was 57 minutes, so I have chosen to share with you only the worst five minutes…”
- “Ladies and Gentlemen, thank you all so much for coming today. I have tried to memorise this speech but given that I have the memory of a goldfish you’ll have to excuse me if I look at my notes every five seconds…”
- “Ladies and Gentlemen, thank you all for coming. You’ve all made a special effort to be here and some people have travelled a very long way to be here (mention particular guests here if appropriate). It shows how much you all care about (bride and groom’s names here). Or you’ve all come for the free food. Like they say, there’s no such thing as a free lunch and your price is you have to listen to me speak now…”